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Learn the
5 Relationship-Wrecking Communication Mistakes to
Avoid... The Mistakes That Suck You into the Mire
This is Kristin Denton from MagicRelationship.com -- with some information that will rock your relationship… and your world. This information will help you get back the love, trust and honesty you crave in your relationship… It works, and it's simple enough to begin using tonight. I know how it is to feel the desperation when you think you've got to end your relationship -- or go crazy. You think it’s your fault for a while, then you think your beloved is stark-raving mad… and then you go back to putting it all on yourself again. You’d talk to your friends but they’re tired of hearing about it… you’d talk to your mom, but you know she’s always just going to put down your partner,… or you’d talk to a psychologist, but you don’t have the time or the money. And so you just plug along, hoping you’ll stumble onto the answer to your problems. I don't know what was worse when I went through my divorces - that I was losing my beloved, or that I was loosing the dream I had built around our life together. With my first marriage we were going to move overseas, I was going to teach there and we would live in tropical glory with an avocado tree in the yard. Once I discovered that none of that was going to happen, and not only that, but that he expected me to work full time and take care of the baby while he dreamed up marketing schemes... I didn't know what to do. And so we divorced and went through an awful international child custody battle.
What's sad is that now I know the communication
I realize... now... that I wasn't even expressing my feelings and needs in a way that he could have understood what I really wanted. And I was making absolutely every one of the 5 Relationship Wrecking Communication Mistakes. No wonder it ended in divorce. And in each successive relationship I made the same mistakes and blamed everything on my poor partner. I'm not saying they were angels, these guys, but I can definitely see how I really added to the pain and disappointed by my lack of communication and also my 'violent' communication. I have a very sharp tongue. Have YOU ever shamed, blamed or argued pointlessly? You know what I mean... It wasn't until I met Paul and he introduced me to the work of Dr. Marshall Rosenberg, Nonviolent Communication, that I was able to figure the whole thing out. And no, things aren't perfect between Paul and me -- but at least we've got a tool to use to express our innermost feelings and needs. Now I've got a way of indentifying what I really want out of the relationship and expressing that to Paul in a compassionate way... a way in which he'll really want to hear it. And if it worked for me -- a relationship basket case -- I'm sure it will work for you, too.
Change Isn't Always ‘Better’…
We’ll show you what to change and how to
change it to get the love, trust, honesty, intimacy, and
open communication you want in a relationship.
I’ve got good new for you: There is a way to communicate with your beloved that will create compassion and understanding: and all it takes is avoiding the 5 Relationship Wrecking Communication Mistakes. (Okay... sometimes controlling what you say when you're in the middle of a heated argument isn't THAT easy... but with our method, all you have to remember are these 5 points, things you can DO -- and that's a lot easier than just trying to be enlightened...) When you purchase our eBook, “The 5 Relationship-Wrecking Communication Mistakes” your life and your relationship WILL change. The thing that is so amazing about The 5 Mistakes is how powerful it is to just know about them so that I can avoid them. You'll start to notice that the issues that used to be hard to talk about will start to feel like a casual conversation... and the scary ones that you used to run away from, you will now take on with compassion and confidence. When couples learn this tool, they say it is a turning point in their relationship.
Reading the 5
Relationship-Wrecking Communication Mistakes eBook,
doing the exercises at the end of each chapter and doing
the exercises we’ll send you by email… will give you the
tools and skills to bring back the trust, honesty and
open communication that you crave. However, the power of the eBook is in the exercises at the end of each chapter that deepen your understanding and prepare you to actually use this information.
You'll want to read
it again and again and do all
of the exercises to get the most out of it. Some people hit the wall in a week. For others it takes a couple of months, and for Paul's parents it took about 20 years...
The wall is where
your relationship issues are bigger than your
ability to be able to
work through them using your verbal communication.
If you want to be successful... you have to learn how to communicate with others.
Look at politicians,
salespeople and Hollywood actors. What do they have in
common? They are all great (at times) at communicating
with others. They were all great at communicating with others but they weren't so good at communicating with themselves. That's why they were so unhappy. Their biographies point out how cruel they were with their own self criticism...and how they barraged themselves with negative self talk.
But you can make the decision,
right now, to change your
life for the better. Once you're aware of the
distinctions about communication presented in "The 5
Relationship Wrecking Communication Mistakes," you'll
never relate to others in the same way again.
So Here Are Some
Of The Benefits of Read the eBook, do the exercises and…
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Relationship counselors around the world get paid over $100 an hour to discuss one issue at a time. Successful ones are booked year round and months in advance. Rather than spending hours frustrated and up to $2500 for some advice anywhere else...
Download Your Copy of
You'll get...The E-book,
The 2 Bonus Audio Files |
Remember, we've been testing this over and over again for years on each other (Paul is guinea pig #1, I'm guinea pig #2) and it's been working for us -- and we come from some very dysfunctional backgrounds!
it works for our clients -- like Henry and Velina, who were ready to get a divorce but are now planning a renewal of their vows in Cabo San Lucas.
Randy and Janet call us all of the time when they run into relationship walls to help get them through it -- they claim they wouldn't still be together, loving each other, working together and caring for their son -- without our help.
And Burt and Regina have used this method to make it possible just to remain in the same house together... before learning the 5 Mistakes they were sure they were going to have to split up.
Plus we teach it to prison inmates,
at-risk students, university professors, therapists,
counselors and even more couples.
If these strategies have worked in all of these circumstances, you can bet they're going to work wonders
in your life.
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Paul & Kristin
take you step-by-step through the 5
Mistakes...and spend
over an hour discussing the issues that
plague most relationships. This package of
MP3 downloads includes an extensive Q & A
session with the participants at the end.
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Paul & Kristin
talk about
your Relationship Operating
System (ROS)... and dive into
the power our past can have on our present
and our future -- past relationships, past
baggage, past experiences that could be
running and ruining your current love-life.
Bonus #1 $47...plus Bonus #2 $47
That's a total
of $94.00 you'll get for FREE |
Just How Much Do We Believe
in This Solution?
Got a Tough Partner and Not Sure This Will Work for You?
Order the eBook and audio recordings, read the book, listen to the recordings, take notes and practice what you learn.
You have 90 days to put these tools to the test. Learn to identify and avoid the 5 Mistakes and test them in your most challenging situations.
We guarantee
knowing and avoiding them will:

Dramatically and instantly reduce the number of conflicts and upsets in your relationship,
Increase the trust, honesty, intimacy and open communication in your life,
And that your only regret will be that you didn't learn this in school!
If at the end of the 3 months... you don't agree that they are the most useful communication and relationship skills you have ever learned, just let us know and we will gladly refund your money.
Some of our Clients Have Been So Excited... and Relieved... by Their
Results, They've Emailed, Phoned, and
Faxed Us
These Notes...
"Radically Impacted My Relationships...""I recognize how I am constantly
building cases against people. Just that
alone has radically impacted my
relationships." |
"I feel I can finally start building a relationship that was lost between my family, wife, children...""It's not that the communication was bad, it just wasn't there. And it's way past time for me to connect with my family. And I want to do it the most effective way possible. Me and my wife are both going through a lot right now. We will need all the tools possible to keep continuing to grow and understand each other's needs. Thank you."Arnie S., Jefferson County Jail |
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Dear Kristin and Paul, It's Arthur, literally from the other side of the world, sunny Singapore…. …As the saying goes, although my heart knows no bottom: many thanks to you both, from the bottom of my heart. Long story short, I made time to read the .pdf file [The 5 Relationship-Wrecking Communication Mistakes] once, straight off the screen of my old iMac and that very midnight worked with Annie on the phone. So glad you were right there for me when I mustered everything in my heart and mind to help prevent them from breaking up.... Here's her heartfelt email I just picked up this morning, that I'm happy to share with you, my partners in healing... Hi Artie dear ….It is not possible in this brief update to be able to explain all that has happened. It is however, suffice to say there has been a change, a positive one in our relationship. It was moving and profound and I feel privileged to have been able to share in a precious moment, a meeting in 'real love' with Flavio. Such a trustful and tender moment has led to a 'new' beginning for him and so, for us also as a couple… love ever Sis.xx I've told some close friends of mine about your being there for me when I needed it. Will make more time to view the video material and work more closely with you.... :- Be well. Now I must reply Annie. Arthur |
Learning Together
Is Optional
Now don't get me wrong: most of the time it's easier and more fun when your partner wants to learn this process with you... but the Magic Relationship Method is very much effective when it's used by only one partner.
The only way it's not
effective is if your partner is reluctant and only
learns the process because you blackmail them ("I'll
never have sex with you again unless you read this
eBook...!")
Changing the way you
relate to your partner will change the relationship.
It's like slow dancing… if one of you changes the step,
then the dance HAS to change.
Your partner has to
do something to accommodate this change or you'll both
fall over.
So remember, it
can be learned by yourself.
To Your Relationship Success,


Kristin Denton and Paul Sterling
MagicRelationship.com
970-586-7734
P.S.
"Insanity is communicating the same way over and over
again, expecting a different result." Arguments,
intimacy problems, family feuds as well as problems on
the job -- these are most often communication problems,
either with others or ourselves.
Order the eBook today and learn that if you...
Communicate well with
others, you can be successful...
Communicate well with yourself,
you can be happy.
P.P.S. "These are either the best, more informative, most useful Bonus recordings you have listened to on relationships and communication or we will refund your payment...
P.P.P.S. Still stuck on the fence...? Give us a call if you have any questions. You can reach us at (970) 586-7734 or send an email to Kristin@MagicRelationship.com .
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